BEST RELATIONSHIP ADVICE EVER!
Written by faithmueni on July 27, 2022
In a relationship no one is an expert, everyone is trying to figure things out. Honestly, getting advice from friends or relatives may sometimes mislead us in resolving and healing.
Or are going into a relationship with negative experiences? Well, this may hinder the flow of love in and out of you because you are holding onto fear hence encouraging toxic relationships!
Here are some of the best piece of advice for a good relationship to thrive:
Love with all your heart and hold nothing back- Well, I know some of us may not like this, because maybe in your past experience you tried things out and they didn’t work out. Maybe, it was because you were trying to get in a relationship when both of you were not ready for commitments.
Loving with all your heart isn’t what got you hurt , what got you hurt is loving the wrong person! Try to heal first, because if you haven’t healed from previous relationships your vision is blurred and you will try to evaluate things with a broken heart.
Stop holding back, and do your best to love with all your heart.
Don’t get in the relationship for the wrong reasons e.g. because you are lonely- Feeling lonely is a totally natural place to be in— in fact, I don’t know anyone who hasn’t found themselves struggling with feeling lonely at one time or another.
But far too many people jump into the first relationship they can find as soon as they feel lonely— and it’s often not the right relationship.
But if you find yourself in a relationship just for the sake of being with someone, it’s time to rethink it. Because you deserve to be in a relationship with someone you actually click with, sometimes you need to go through the harsh learning experience of feeling lonely to find out what you really want.
Don’t get in a relationship with ill intentions of revenge- Does getting revenge make individuals psychologically feel good?
Study shows a tendency to forgive and the intention of revenge is the belief that resentment and hostility appear to be strong motivators of revenge. Therefore, It is advised that one should not get into a relationship for revenge.
When you feel yourself with love you get into the relationship by giving your all with nothing to hold back. The moment your partner sees all your effort, they will tend to step in to match your energy and your efforts.