Sex and Love

When someone proposes to you, do you say yes because it’s your chance to be the belle of the ball in a magnificent gown / tuxedo, or because you really see yourself spending a lifetime with this person? When you’re engaged, what’s more important to you? The wedding or the marriage? What do you invest […]

Making a baby is a two person affair, you need a man’s sperm to meet a woman’s egg, fertilize it and prepare for implantation and gestation. You know how it’s goes – high school biology explored this. That means, in one way or other, both adults were cognizant and consenting of these requirements to make […]

Do you know what consent is? Wikipedia defines it as permission for something to happen or agreement to do something. In matters sex and love, it simply means don’t assume your partner is automatically up to doing something with you simply because of their station in your life. By this, I am referring especially to […]

  On Saturday night, comedian Njugush published a video that glorified date rape. He has since taken the video down, but not after the damage had been done. In the video, Njugush is seen to insist that the lady he took to watch Sarafina goes home with him because he’s invited her out plenty of […]

  Once upon a time, I was married. Two years and three months later, I left that marriage. I can chalk it down to the reality of it as opposed to the expectations set by our public declaration of love in the form of a wedding and grand 500 guest reception. During said reception, I […]

For those of you who have watched Scandal – Shonda Rhimes’ political drama that aired its final episode this April, we all rooted for Olitz in the beginning. Despite the fact that she was the mistress, we rooted for Olivia and Fitz’s love. And as the series developed, we learn that Mellie – the First […]

Personal space; a concept unknown to and misunderstood by many. It simply means not to stand uncomfortably close to someone, touching them when they don’t want to be touched or literally breathing down their necks. It’s irritating. And uncomfortable. And so very annoying! Girls and women suffer the most when it comes to personal space, […]

  I love the internet; it’s my source of information, knowledge, opportunities and of course, my one stop shop for creeps and weirdos looking to score a night of passion. No, not necessarily Tinder (I abhor the app!) but just the good old internet. Twitter, Instagram, my personal blog and email. As long as my […]

Unpopular opinion: men are extremely insecure and they project their insecurities on their significant others. I’ll elucidate, with real life experiences. There was once a boy I knew, who liked me a lot, and in his mind I was going to be his wife. Little did he know that I was not about to get […]

It’s always in the little things. That is what makes a world of difference in how we treat each other, especially as significant others. Gentlemen, when your girl is talking to you, listen to her. Pay attention to what she’s saying. The same applies to girls; listen to your man when he talks to you. […]


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